The word no is a frustrating word for anyone to hear. No one really likes to hear it. John and I had talked about how when we had kids, we were going to strive to not use the word no. I'll explain in a minute. Now, since having Levi we have added to that list phrases that associate a negative meaning or outcome. Those are things like "if you don't stop eating candy, you will end up sick," or "if you don't shape up your life, you are going to go to jail!" Things like that. Your mind can't help but think of the negative outcome and that starts to become the reality that your mind creates. So, we are trying not to use those phrases with Levi as well.